New Trier’s Mia Solberg takes control of the puck during last week’s game against Loyola Academy. The two teams skated to a 3-3 tie. PHOTOGRAPHY BY JOEL LERNER
There is a sign above the door to Mia Solberg’s room at her home in Winnetka.
It announces: “Attitude is everything. Pick a good one.”
It is one of the last things the New Trier senior hockey captain sees before stepping outside and living her life each day. She picked a good one on this day. She must have. Her quick smile, in the presence of friends, of teammates, of coaches, of humans in general, is all the evidence you need.
“I love meeting people, getting to know them, learning new perspectives,” Solberg, a 5-foot-3 forward with a magnetic, fun-loving personality. “I’m big on keeping an open mind. It’s important. Having an open mind could change your life for the better.”
Solberg’s head won’t be buried in books at a college library in 2016-17. She will spend the first semester, mostly outdoors, in the Patagonia region at the southernmost tip of South America (shared by Argentina and Chile). The second semester in her gap year? To be determined.
“I was a junior, and I was freaking out,” Solberg, a two-time state champion field hockey player and a one-time state champion ice hockey player, recalls. “I didn’t know where I wanted to go to college, what I wanted my major to be. That led me to consider taking a gap year, to figure some things out. I’m looking forward to learning outdoor skills and hands-on skills in other countries.”
Her stickhandling skills have come in quite handy for New Trier’s varsity hockey club (8-4-2 through Jan. 28) this winter, along with her pregame speeches to teammates and ability to make each player on a young crew — six freshmen made NT’s varsity — feel indispensible. The captain likes to collect all those pucks resting in or near goal after pregame warm-up sessions. See the ‘C’ pick up the pucks. See an example of leadership. Solberg, a fourth-year varsity player, was nervous, at first, about delivering speeches before each puck drop. Not anymore.
“I feel sick,” was the start of one of her speeches. It got her teammates’ attention right away. Solberg was healthy that day.
“I was sick of losing, and I thought it would be a good idea to let my teammates know how I felt on that day,” Solberg says. “We had had a bad stretch, lost some tough games.”
Wondering how Solberg felt when she scored the first goal of NT’s double-overtime defeat of Loyola Academy in the state championship game at the United Center in 2014? Wonder no more.
“I was in shock,” Solberg says. “Right after I scored [on a rebound of her shot on goal], I couldn’t move parts of my arms. It was like my arms were stuck to my sides. I wish I had danced, or celebrated in some way, but I couldn’t do much of anything. I guess I was too shocked to get excited.
“Best moment of my life. Best day of my life.”
A funny moment: freshman year, at an ice rink. A New Trier coach had described Solberg as a tenacious player. Solberg had no idea what “tenacious” meant. She hoped it was a compliment or at least a good thing. Solberg looked for help. She asked a teammate, “What does ‘tenacious’ mean?”
“That teammate,” Solberg, smiling, says, “didn’t know what it meant, either.”
NT girls hockey coach Nelson Forsberg welcomed Solberg to the varsity program way back in 2012. No other freshman made the varsity in ’12. Solberg, the athlete, was unassuming then. Self-deprecating, too, another good thing, with a knack for effortlessly moving a puck and making defensemen feel dizzy, occasionally turning them into spinners on blades.
“She is a solid, all-around player,” Forsberg says of Solberg, a spin instructor, no kidding, away from the rinks. “You don’t always notice her on the ice, but more often than not, Mia is there, where she has to be, when it matters. Great hands, great skills. She has this one move, this one-on-one move … it’s a series of moves, actually, a lot of dekes, preceded by a quick release.
“And as a captain,” he adds, “she’s good at bringing everybody together.”
Meghan Talbot, a New Trier junior forward, has been on the receiving end of Solberg’s speeches. The speeches work. New Trier hockey players listen to their captain’s words. New Trier hockey players get inspired, all fired up in chilly arenas.
“Her energy … it motivates us, and it keeps us motivated,” Talbot says. “Mia is outgoing, bubbly and fun, a fun kind of gal. You want those qualities from a captain. On the ice she dangles around everyone. Her knowledge of the game, it’s definitely one of her strengths.
“Mia,” Talbot adds, “is a good role model.”
Solberg’s sister, Tommy, is a junior forward on New Trier’s varsity hockey team. Their sister, 24-year-old Liza, lives in Denver. Brother Gunnar, 22, played hockey, as did another brother, Matt (New Trier, Class of 2014). Matt Solberg, the most decorated athlete of Tor and Jen’s five children, also played lacrosse at New Trier. The Matt Solberg Shrine (trophies, press clipping, etc.) is located in the Solberg kitchen, Mia notes.
Tor played hockey, lacrosse and football before his college days. He extended his hockey career at Colgate University.
“My dad was a stud athlete,” Mia says. “He reminds me to be an aggressive hockey player. And Matt, what an all-star he was, what a competitive athlete. He motivated me when he played sports at New Trier. He was a huge role model for me.”
Among Mia Solberg’s other serious likes in life are steak-and-rice dinners, old movies and soundtracks in old movies. Bring up The Graduate or Rear Window or Cape Fear around Solberg and prepare to watch an animated Solberg grow more animated. The flicks fascinated her. The soundtracks moved her.
“Music determines the mood of a movie, the entire mood.” Solberg says. “It’s such an important element in a movie. I’m thinking of the music from Cape Fear right now, and I’m feeling goose bumps.”
Mia Solberg appears to shiver a little. Another smile appears.
Mia Solberg, clearly, had picked a good attitude on this day.
Notable: New Trier and host Loyola Academy skated to a 3-3 tie at American Heartland Ice Arena in Lincolnwood on Jan. 28. NT freshman Emma Katzman scored twice, and classmate Addie Budington netted the other goal in between Katzman’s tallies. Hayden Snow, another freshman, was in goal for New Trier.